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I’m not a feminist because I don’t believe I was put on this earth to outsmart or outdo men or vice versa. Men are smart, women are smart, it’s no contest. It’s just that God put men and women together differently, biologically and emotionally. He wanted to build societies that would flourish and prosper with both men and women working to their God given potential.

God has made men differently to women,  He meant for both men and women to live side by side each embracing the other’s unique gifts and talents to better themselves, their children and society. We all know that strong individuals make strong families, strong families make strong communities, strong communities make strong societies.

I believe that God had a plan, a plan that would  have our lives all mapped out for us, a life that would bring glory to Him, peace, joy and prosperity to mankind, if we cared to follow that plan.

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But we haven’t!!!!! Ask the person beside you if they know the ten commandments?  Sure, they might be able to recite one or two ( keeping in mind that today’s basic common law has come out of the bible) but I doubt very much whether they would know the rest.

I don’t believe we have strong societies today. Crimes up, suicide up, human slavery up, poverty up, broken families up, drug abuse up, depression and mental problems up, not respecting authority up etc… I wouldn’t  say this reflects strong, happy and prosperous societies ?????????? WHY????? Because people are confused as to what their unique roles are, what the boundaries are, what their confines are then we are emotionally and physically spoiling our children and then poisoning their minds with radical, gender ideologies and theories and the waters get muddier by the day.

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Now, I’m not attempting to profess that life is easy. No!!! Life is not easy,  but it sure is easier when you stay within your confines. Now I have worked as a professional for over thirty seven years and I have had a great professional career in teaching. I have had to liaise with many different students, people, groups,  committees, organisations, each knowing their roles within them and sharing a common set of beliefs. This was all for the prosperity of its people and staff.  I’m proud to say that I knew my confines, I spoke up when it was appropriate and allowed democracy to lead the way. All this making it easier to function and  continue to work there on a daily basis. I am proud to say that I have just retired from my job, leaving it all behind with a sense of achievement and respect from my contemporaries.

This hasn’t come automatically, I have had to work at it everyday and maintain a positive outlook and live my professional life within my confines. I have had to live through many reviews, follow rules, policies, amendments, adjustments, improvements, etc…….. I know that I had to respect authority, my leaders, my contemporaries and the community I served.  I had to keep a professional relationship with them all and uphold and maintain a common set of beliefs and standards. If I didn’t, well then…………… I really shouldn’t have been there, I wouldn’t have fit in and eventually I would have been shown the door.

We all have other interests and extra curricula activities as adults and children, we  choose to belong to various sporting/interest groups, dance/ hobby, arts clubs etc… Well!!!!! They too have rules and standards they expect their patrons and subscribes to uphold. How else would they be able to function ?????? The same could be said for most of us, where our behaviour and attitude would dictate whether we belong or not belong to a particular club or group.

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Going back to the statement above about men standing up and being counted, we need strong men( and women) now more than ever. But how do we do that, you might ask???????  I think I have well established the notion that a common set of beliefs, rules, regulations and standards are part of belonging to a group and keeping it orderly so that it can function and prosper. Similarly, for the smooth running of our lives, we need to follow rules and standards, the ones that God has set out for us. The ones that Jesus exampled to us-  JESUS- who modelled how men and women should live, think, act and behave. Mary chosen by God to be the mother of our Saviour, modelled how women should act and behave. So, instead of complicating our lives with garbage that Hollywood, the media and society thrusts  upon us, we can say NO and not alter our beliefs to fit in with society’s, but increase our  faith in God and look to Jesus and biblical truth for the answers we need.

I don’t believe that Jesus expected us to all die on a cross like He did. As a matter of truth how much do we owe Him for that? We owe Him everything, for choosing death on the cross so that we may have eternal life in heaven with Him. What Jesus expects of us is to look up to Him and aspire to be more and more like Him everyday through submission to Him,  prayer, abstinence, forgiveness, repentance and a willingness to have a relationship with Him.

Please pray with me if you believe this and wish to make changes in your life.


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I’m sad but not beaten, because I know that God is working moment by moment in the lives of us all. God does not interfere with our free will, God does not stop things from happening either and why should He?

We will things and brings things upon ourselves and then blame God if they don’t work out. You cannot have it both ways. God is not politically correct either, you are either for Him or against Him, there is no middle ground with God.

But I also believe that God does not forget his faithfuls, He will be there for us and not desert us. (See Deuteronomy 31:8 ) It is the Lord who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.”

As we seek to share the Gospel in an increasingly secular culture, we must demonstrate how the natural result of the Christian sexual ethic is an intact family and culture of human flourishing.(Courtesy of Family Voice Australia)

The state has no authority to change God’s law. God’s law comes before man’s law.

We must acknowledge the laws of our nation and the authority of the parliament, even if we cannot accept a redefinition of marriage as a matter of morality and ultimate truth.

We must commit to being good citizens and neighbours, even as we cannot accept a redefinition of marriage in our churches and lives. (Courtesy of Family Voice Australia)

We now need to continue to pray and write to our local members of parliament that they will vote to protect religious freedoms, freedom of speech and the right for families to say No to radical gender theories and indoctrination in schools through the programmes they teach to our children.

In saying this, we as christians have the responsibility to uphold the law of God, the law that God through Jesus Christ His Son passed on to us thousands of years ago, that now still holds true.

It is pretty clear in Mark 10 what Jesus intended about marriage and passed on to us from the Father

6“But from the beginning of creation, “God made them male and female.’ 7 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, 8 and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

and then we read in Genesis

“And God created man to His own image: to the image of God He created him: male and female He created them. And God blessed them, saying: Increase and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it.'” (Genesis 1:27-28)


Article 18
1. Everyone shall have the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion. This right shall include freedom to have or to adopt a religion or belief of his choice, and freedom, either individually or in community with others and in public or private, to manifest his religion or belief in worship, observance, practice and teaching.
2. No one shall be subject to coercion which would impair his freedom to have or to adopt a religion or belief of his choice.
3. Freedom to manifest one’s religion or beliefs may be subject only to such limitations as are prescribed by law and are necessary to protect public safety, order, health, or morals or the fundamental rights and freedoms of others.
4. The States Parties to the present Covenant undertake to have respect for the liberty of parents and, when applicable, legal guardians to ensure the religious and moral education of their children in conformity with their own convictions. respect the exclusive character of the responsibilities of the Secretary-General and the staff and not to seek to influence them in the discharge of their responsibilities.

Article 27
In those States in which ethnic, religious or linguistic minorities exist, persons belonging to such minorities shall not be denied the right, in community with the other members of their group, to enjoy their own culture, to profess and practise their own religion, or to use their own language. 


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ROME – Italian fashion designer moguls Domenico Dolce and Stefano Gabbana are no strangers to criticism. In late February, the duo made the family the star of their runway, staying true to their Italian roots in family, femininity, and religion.

Dolce said…..“I believe that one cannot have everything in life, if it’s not there it means it’s not meant to be. It’s important to deprive oneself of something,” and continued, “Life has a natural path, there are some things that should not be changed. And one of these is family.”

When two prominent media and fashion moguls speak about their lived experiences, it resonates strongly. Dolce & Gabbana have stood up against a growing hatred for the “NO”voters on same sex marriage.

Kudos to Dolce & Gabbana for speaking the truth and the reality that some people don’t wish to hear or care about, but we do…




Dolce & Gabbana aren’t backing down from pro-family stand

Jesus instituted the family as the safest and best way for children to live and learn and  for the growth of  strong communities  – in an environment supported by a husband and a wife, a mother and a father.  Boys learn to be men by the examples set by their fathers and girls learn to be girls by the examples set by their mothers. The two complement each other. I understand that this is not always the reality and substituting with suitable people of moral character and of both gender, can benefit and prosper the family.

Some people are misrepresenting the words of Jesus, saying that love is love and that Jesus would approve of same sex marriage. I think not, when we follow man made laws we either do or don’t, there is no inbetween, same with the law of God.

The Synoptic Gospels attribute the following quote to Jesus: “Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters” (Matthew 12:30), as well as its contrapositive, “Whoever is not against us is for us” (Luke 9:50; Mark 9:40). 

Prayer In Defense Of Marriage

(Courtesy of the United Conference of Catholic Bishops)


God our Father, we give you thanks
for the gift of marriage: the bond of life and love,
and the font of the family.

The love of husband and wife enriches your Church with children,
fills the world with a multitude of spiritual fruitfulness and service,
and is the sign of the love of your Son, Jesus Christ, for his Church.

The grace of Jesus flowed forth at Cana at the
request of the Blessed Mother. May your Son,
through the intercession of Mary, pour out upon us
a new measure of the Gifts of the Holy Spirit
as we join with all people of good will
to promote and protect the unique beauty of marriage.

May your Holy Spirit enlighten our society
to treasure the heroic love of husband and wife,
and guide our leaders to sustain and protect
the singular place of mothers and fathers
in the lives of their children.

Father, we ask that our prayers
be joined to those of the Virgin Mary,
that your Word may transform our service
so as to safeguard the incomparable splendor of marriage.
We ask all these things through Christ our Lord,

Saints Joachim and Anne, pray for us.



Many people and reports I have read, seem to have got onto this bandwagon that you can change your sex given at birth, later on in life, according to how you feel. The report below shows clearly, that this is all misleading and bringing more confusion to the problem of gender dysphoria. All we have heard in the media are theories, with a life changing decision that requires surgery, intrusive procedures, drugs  etc… wouldn’t you want to rely on scientific data? Feelings like Patrick had,(see below) are psychological and should be treated as such, not with a sex change.

The Patrick Mitchell’s story viewed on 60 Minutes in Australia-on Sunday-10th September, was backed up with scientific stats and figures. It gave proof that you can change your appearance but you cannot change what’s on the inside. So then, according to the Safe Schools Programme in schools here in Australia, children like Patrick, who are confused, will have to role play being a male/female depending on their feelings, cross dress, change his pronoun, be indoctrinated to accept that it’s normal,all to confuse him more as to what gender he is. The report did mention that he was suicidal prior to him transgending back to a male. Professor Whitehall a leading paediatrician,  makes a lot of sense. He said that children grow out of gender dysphoria, given the right support, not what’s on trend.                                        The 60 minutes report- PATRICK MITCHELL’S STORY CLICK here

more scientific information on gender dysphoria-click here

The media is not after your well being, but sensationalism. Politicians are worried about votes, doctors are not necessarily focussed on your total wellbeing and in the 60 Minutes report above, doctors are over diagnosing the gender dysphoria theory, which that’s all it is- A theory.




Gender Theory- A real deception, an attack on humanity

Apparently there are 63 different genders and rising. If you’re confused, so am I. Imagine teaching this to students at school????  This gender philosophy is not about tolerance and acceptance is about changing the very fabric of how and why we were made.


I have great concern about the hidden agendas of minor political groups pushing gender theory, the gender neutral philosophies or gender spectrum.

The “SAFE SCHOOLS” programme that has been introduced in Victorian schools-Australia is deceiving, it’s not a programme against bullying, it was designed by transgenders to introduce the above theories.

When gender ideologies and being gender neutral is portrayed to children and teenagers who  are still formulating their ideas , it can confuse their feelings and perceptions which can then manifest as psychological problems (see link to  scientific paper below).

People are having gender reassignment surgery or taking hormones to block or change gender characteristics.  There is a push now towards CHANGING YOUR GENDER BECAUSE OF HOW YOU FEEL. First of all, when God created male and female, He didn’t intend for it to be so open and complicated.

We are all created by God, in His image we are created. At birth, doctors and pediatricians determine whether you are a boy or a girl. I am not discounting that there may be gene mutations and on the odd occasion nature gets it wrong. I have listened to biophysicists speak about how the number of genes play a huge factor in determining gender and that anomalies can be rectified at birth with medical intervention.

Environments can influence how a person feels. Feelings change, this should not determine gender however. Here’s an analogy, for example, a man  goes to his psychologist and expresses his fears. Ok! so they discuss it and try to resolve where this is coming from. On another day, the same man says that he feels like a girl. Ok, the psychologist suggests gender reassignment. On another day, the man says he feels like a chinese male, ok then we can reassign you with facial plastic surgery to a chinese transgender male. On yet another day he feels like an african, bisexual lion. Where will it end? Do you get my drift???????

As adults we have an obligation to present the purest ideas to children and only those that come from the true source-God Almighty, the intelligent designer, the creator of all things living and non-living, seen and unseen. Denying all this, does not mean that God is not at work or that God got it wrong.

Leaving it to people who have limited knowledge (comparing it to God) and biases which may affect people’s thinking away from the real truth, can be detrimental to the individual and society.   If God had meant for us to be gender neutral and that our feelings determine who and what we are,  Jesus would have addressed that in His teachings.

Below is a link to scientific evidence.

Paper by American College of Paediatricians

So, what do we do? We must offer genuine love to our gender dysphoric neighbor (Mark 12:30–31). But as Christians, we’re also required to confront new challenges with biblical truth. God made men and women unique and complementary (Gen. 1:27). God is love , His laws are there to protect us.

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I like Robbie Williams, he’s come out of the ashes and risen to love Jesus, to turn his life around and then to write lyrics like these. Everyone deserves a father like this.( see lyrics to song “GO GENTLE” by Robbie Williams-see link below)

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While almost any man can father a child, there is so much more to the important role of being dad in a child’s life. A father’s role is so important, he has to be a:- caregiver, protector,  provider, teacher,  nurturer, advisor, psychologist, nurse, a friend and more. A father’s role is central to the emotional well-being of their children especially during those formative years till the age of about 5 years. A father has to wear many hats and they cannot be good at all of them.

The Christian father is really an instrument in God’s hand. A father’s first responsibility is to acquaint his children with Scripture. The means and methods that fathers may use to teach God’s truth will vary. As the father is faithful in role modelling, what children learn about God will put them in good standing throughout their earthly lives, no matter what they do or where they go.

We live in a broken world, no judgements needed, fathers have issues too.

If your earthly father cannot or could not be the caring, nurturing father that you deserved, allow God the Father to be your father for you, for healing to occur ……..








He sings his testimony………………. “I LOVE MY LIFE”                                     


Today our children are lost!!!!!!!!! We have few good models whom they can look up to. The media, Hollywood, the music industry is stealing our children away from us parents. Movie themes, music lyrics, satanic symbols are all so damaging to impressionable minds.

Men have to stand up and defend God their wives daughters, sons, family and homes. God made men to be leaders, not the type that are going to suppress women and children but ones who will stand up for the truth and be good models to their children. Children learn masculinity through fathers and strong male figures. What makes a man righteous is not obedience to the law but faith in Jesus Christ. We have been empowered by the grace of Christ won for us by the cross not just an intellectual faith but a commitment  to Christ. The Holy Spirit (The spirit of God and the spirit of Jesus)the comforter will lead us to the truth and help us.

John Eldredge in the book “WILD AT HEART” addresses how men have to stand up and discover the heart that God gave them. It goes back to the wound that we have inherited from the fall of Adam and Eve. How men have to stand up and be who God created them to be. Sure we all fail from time to time and fall short especially when the world will try to drag us down. This book will help men find out how to be a better man, father, husband, friend.

This means that we should live and act in a way that supports the gospel. We should also arm ourselves with knowledge, both of the gospel (Ephesians 6:10-17) and of the world around us. First Peter 3:15 says, “But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord”. All we can do is live and teach as Christ would and let Him take care of the rest.